Tuesday, August 27, 2013

Follow Your Heart

The more that you are willing to take the smaller risks, the more you will be willing to face bigger fears and take bigger risks in the long run. Taking risks, and going for your dreams, isn't usually something that just happens overnight. Many times we are forced to have to make accomplishments in our lives step by step. It would be nice to live a life that saw immediate and explosive success as soon as we started to be proactive, but great amounts of success are highly unlikely in our first attempts at gaining them.

Instead of worrying so much about your ultimate goal at every point in your life, be willing to worry more about preparing for your biggest moments. Practice, practice, practice. Make success a habit by developing a skill set that demands success. Sooner or later, all of the hard days that you thought would never mean anything will mean everything, and every ounce of success that you desire, will be yours.
The best thing that you can do in life is follow your heart. Take risks. Don't just take the safe and easy choices because your afraid of what might happen. Don't have any regrets and know that everything happens for a reason.

Monday, August 26, 2013

Never Go To Sleep Angry

Never go to sleep angry. 
Because you never know if you or the person you're mad at will wake up the next morning. 
Always forgive someone. 
Because you never know if you'll talk to them again. 
Things happen. 
Get over it. 
Always forgive. 
You may not forget.
But it's better than knowing you'll never get to say sorry or I love you again.

Tuesday, August 6, 2013

Broken Plate .....

{No Problem}


Love is special.

When you find someone good to love and to love you back, be sure to do everything in your power to keep these relationships solid.

I love you, not for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you.

#moon&back #infinity&beyond #forever&ever


Friday, August 2, 2013

Love is a Decision

Every relationship has a cycle…
In the beginning; you fall in love with your partner.
You anticipate their calls, want their touch, and like their idiosyncrasies.
Falling in love wasn't hard.
In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience.
You didn't have to DO anything.
That's why it's called "falling" in love.

People in love sometimes say, "I was swept off my feet."

Picture the expression.
It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU.

Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous experience.

But after a few months or years of being together, the euphoria of love fades.
It's a natural cycle of EVERY relationship.

Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts.

The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, "Am I with the right person?" And as you reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else.

This is when relationships breakdown.

The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the person you found.

People blame their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes.

Infidelity is the most common.

But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances.
But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship.
It lies within it.

I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else.

You could.
And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better.
But you'd be in the same situation a few years later.

Because (listen carefully to this):

The key to succeeding in a Relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the Person you found.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience.

You have to work on it day in and day out.
It takes time, effort, and energy.
And most importantly, it demands WISDOM.
You have to know WHAT TO DO to make it work.
Make no mistake about it.

Love is NOT a mystery.

There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner), just as there are physical laws Of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships.
If you know how to apply these laws, the results are predictable.

Love is therefore a "decision". Not just a feeling.

Remember this always: God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let GO...