Thursday, November 21, 2013

I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.
~Maya Angelou

If You Can't Handle My Worst You Don't Deserve My Best

I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.
~Marilyn Monroe


Wednesday, November 20, 2013

The strongest oak of the forest is not the one that is protected from the storm and hidden from the sun. It's the one that stands in the open where it is compelled to struggle for its existence against the winds and rains and the scorching sun.
~Napoleon Hill
People are like stained-glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in, their beauty is revealed only if there is a light from within.
~Elizabeth K├╝bler-Ross

Failure Is An Opportunity To Begin Again

To fail is to live, while to not try is to die faster. 
Every time we fail and get back up again we not only build up our own self-confidence, but we also build up our character. 
Getting back up after failure after failure will help us to grow stronger and stronger at each attempt towards reaching our dreams. 
Without failure our lives require no innovation, and no creativity. 
Without failure our lives require no hustle, no drive, and no ambition. 
Without failure most success stories would be mundane stories, and the world in turn would be a totally different place full of things and people who help provide to it no meaning and no sincerity. 
Failing is a requirement in life to know how to better ourselves, and to in turn help to better the world. 
So go fail, then fail again, and each time fail better! 
Every time you fail and get back up again you will be much closer to your destiny.

 

Monday, November 18, 2013

When Love Is Right

Falling in love is a beautiful thing, because when you fall in love everything seems much clearer. 
The sky seems a tad bit bluer, the sun will seem a tad bit brighter, love songs will be so much better understood, and the feelings traveling from the soles of your feet to the top of your head will make you feel like a million bucks.
When you fall in love be sure to cherish it, especially when it is right. 
Falling in love isn't something that should be taken for granted. 
Love is sometimes a lot easier to fall into than it is to actually maintain a relationship itself, but when love is right, anything else that follows after it is usually right as well. 
Find someone worth your tears, worth your laughter, worth your heart and that loves you as much as you love them.

Be Soft


Trust Your Gut

Always trust your first gut instincts. 
If you genuinely feel in your heart and soul that something is wrong, it usually is.

Friday, November 15, 2013

Follow Your Heart & Intuition


From your limited point of view the comings and goings of Life can seem chaotic, confusing and unfair. 
But if the ant could see the street from the bird's eye view she would see the order of things. 
Think of your Heart and your Intuition as guidance from above and you'll begin to see how everything is in perfect order.
~Jackson Kiddard
 

Keep the Memories but Move On


Friday I'm In ♥


The Queen Protects The King

Being there for the people that you love is one of the most crucial things that you can do to show them that they are loved in their time of need. True love is about being there when it is necessary for you to do so, and not just when it is most convenient. The moments that you are there for someone in their time of need are the moments that they will remember most. Being a shoulder for a loved one to lean on and cry on may mean everything in the world to that person, and we must never take this for granted.

Every man needs a woman when his life is a mess, because just like in a game of chess; the queen protects the king.

Tuesday, November 12, 2013

True L♥O♥V♥E Story


♥ ♥

♥imperfect and ♥ing every minute of it♥


I fall, 
I rise.
I make mistakes, 
I live,
I learn. 
I've been hurt but I'm alive. 
I'm human, 
I'm not perfect but I'm thankful.

Not Where I Used To Be


kind♥fierce♥brave


Let Go Of The Baggage

The only time in life that you really fail is when you aren't willing to deal with the obstacles that you have yet to overcome.
The true sign of strength in any person is shown in their willingness to deal with their own problems instead of being eager to pin whatever they have been through on people and other circumstances that maybe have some sort of relation to their pursuits.

You often make the choice of the people who you want to be around when you are pursuing victories.
If you notice that people may not really be willing to go along for the ride, and that people may not really be out to help you get to where you need to be, then you probably should choose not to depend on these people during your pursuits.
Sure, life may be a bit harder without the potential help of these people, but choosing to overcome without them may just be letting go of just enough baggage to be able to climb all of the mountains you dream of climbing.

Monday, September 2, 2013

Surrender Let Go Have Faith

Surrender to what is.
Let go of what was.
Have faith in what will be.

Tuesday, August 27, 2013

Follow Your Heart

The more that you are willing to take the smaller risks, the more you will be willing to face bigger fears and take bigger risks in the long run. Taking risks, and going for your dreams, isn't usually something that just happens overnight. Many times we are forced to have to make accomplishments in our lives step by step. It would be nice to live a life that saw immediate and explosive success as soon as we started to be proactive, but great amounts of success are highly unlikely in our first attempts at gaining them.

Instead of worrying so much about your ultimate goal at every point in your life, be willing to worry more about preparing for your biggest moments. Practice, practice, practice. Make success a habit by developing a skill set that demands success. Sooner or later, all of the hard days that you thought would never mean anything will mean everything, and every ounce of success that you desire, will be yours.
The best thing that you can do in life is follow your heart. Take risks. Don't just take the safe and easy choices because your afraid of what might happen. Don't have any regrets and know that everything happens for a reason.

Monday, August 26, 2013

Never Go To Sleep Angry

Never go to sleep angry. 
Because you never know if you or the person you're mad at will wake up the next morning. 
Always forgive someone. 
Because you never know if you'll talk to them again. 
Things happen. 
Get over it. 
Always forgive. 
You may not forget.
But it's better than knowing you'll never get to say sorry or I love you again.
 

Tuesday, August 6, 2013

Broken Plate .....

{No Problem}

#iloveyou

Love is special.

When you find someone good to love and to love you back, be sure to do everything in your power to keep these relationships solid.

I love you, not for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you.
 


#moon&back #infinity&beyond #forever&ever

 
#iloveyou

Friday, August 2, 2013

Love is a Decision

Every relationship has a cycle…
In the beginning; you fall in love with your partner.
You anticipate their calls, want their touch, and like their idiosyncrasies.
Falling in love wasn't hard.
In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience.
You didn't have to DO anything.
That's why it's called "falling" in love.

People in love sometimes say, "I was swept off my feet."

Picture the expression.
It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU.

Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous experience.

But after a few months or years of being together, the euphoria of love fades.
It's a natural cycle of EVERY relationship.

Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts.

The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, "Am I with the right person?" And as you reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else.

This is when relationships breakdown.

The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the person you found.

People blame their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes.

Infidelity is the most common.

But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances.
But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship.
It lies within it.

I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else.

You could.
And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better.
But you'd be in the same situation a few years later.

Because (listen carefully to this):

The key to succeeding in a Relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the Person you found.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience.

You have to work on it day in and day out.
It takes time, effort, and energy.
And most importantly, it demands WISDOM.
You have to know WHAT TO DO to make it work.
Make no mistake about it.

Love is NOT a mystery.

There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner), just as there are physical laws Of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships.
If you know how to apply these laws, the results are predictable.

Love is therefore a "decision". Not just a feeling.

Remember this always: God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let GO...


 

Tuesday, July 30, 2013

Stop Looking Start Living

Wisdom comes only when you stop looking for it and start living the life the Creator intended for you.
~Hopi Proverb
 


Keep Moving Forward

Those who believe they have a future don't think in terms of yesterday, today, and tomorrow. 
A person who really believes in his or her future thinks in terms of generations and years. Being able to think ahead towards the long term is a principle and a system of ideals that is commonly found in people who are most successful in life.

The people who are able to change the world and do what they need to do to be successful, are the people who think in terms of years, and in terms of how their decisions today will affect their families for years to come.

Simply put, it is more rare to find a person who left behind a big legacy than it is to find a person who didn't leave a legacy at all, and these people didn't get to leave such a big legacy by mistake. 

Make the right decisions not only for today, but for years down the line as well. 
Believe in your dreams.

Our eyes are in front because it is better to look ahead than to look back. 
Don't dwell on things on the past. Learn from them and keep moving forward...

Monday, July 29, 2013

Always Get Back Up

 Life has knocked me down a few times. 
It showed me things I never wanted to see. 
I experienced sadness and failures. But one thing for sure, I always get up!

Never let anything stop you from doing what you want to do. If you dream of reaching higher heights, and if you put your mind and heart into everything that you do, there is nothing that can and nothing that will stop you.

Anytime that you commit yourself to achievement and being successful there will be challenges and roadblocks on your path. Though the fact that there will always be these challenges is undeniable we must learn to never let them stop us. When you find yourself facing these walls in life, be sure not to run from them. Use what you have inside of you, think of new solutions, use your creative mind, and never lose sight of your dream to make sure that you find a way around everything that hinders you on the road to success.

Stay encouraged and you will always get to where you need to be.

Wednesday, July 24, 2013

Learn from the Past to Build your Future

If we are ever to really learn in our lives, we have to be willing to not only go through battle, but we also have to be willing to learn from every single one of our battles. 
As we start to learn more about our battles over time, we will learn keys to life including avoiding battles, and maintaining your inner peace as much as possible.

In order to learn from what we have been through we have to be willing to face situations with dignity and focus. 

We must learn to limit how reactive we our to our inner emotional responses, and learn how to see the things that we need to see in the midst of a battle, to better understand how to win the wars we will face in our lives.

Life is a vast set of learning experiences. Learning from the past is how we are able to build our future.


If we all understood that everyone has their own battles to fight, insecurities to face, loves to contend and goals to attain, the world would be a gentler place.

Just for Me today


Thursday, July 18, 2013

67 Reasons I Love You

I love the way I know you'll never give up on me.
I love the fact that I would never give up on you.
I love the way you look at me.
I love the way I can't imagine a day without you in my life.
I love the way if we were ever separated I wouldn't know how to go on.
I love how I know you'll always be there when I need you to be.
I love the fact that I will always be there for you too.
I love how when I dream of my life partner, the only person that I can see is you.
I love how complete I feel when I am with you.
I love how our bodies just fit together.
I love the way we glance at each other across the room and know what each other is thinking.
I love the way, how even though we may be miles apart I still feel like you're right here with me.
I love the way you let me live my life freely without jealousy.
I love how you demand respect but are not controlling.
I love how I would do anything in this world to make you happy.
I love how you would do anything in this world to make me happy.
I love when I answer the phone and it is your voice on the other end.
I love the completeness and oneness I feel when we make love.
I love how you are my soul mate.
I love how our relationship has got stronger with each adversity we have faced together.
I love the way you respect me.
I love the way you protect and defend me.
I love how you feel when we cuddle.
I love that you care for and love my friends.
I love that you care for and love my family.
I love your ability to make friends where ever we go.
I love your love for life.
I love your passion for your hobbies and interests.
I love how every time I look at you, you take my breath away.
I love how I thank God every day for bringing someone as wonderful as you into my life.
I love the fact you gave me the gift of our children.
I love the way you take the time to make our children feel loved and secure.
I love the special moments that we shared that will remain my fondest memories of you and I.
I love spending time with the one person I love the most.
I love how my heart skips a beat whenever you walk into the room.
I love how you love me.
I love how I love you.
I love the way you inspire me to be more than I am.
I love the way you make me feel like anything is possible as long as I'm with you.
I love your sense of humour.
I love you just the way you are.
I love our life together.
I love how if I died right now I would be the happiest person alive knowing I found my one true love.
I love the fact that we will grow old together.
I love the way you look when you’re sleeping.
I love your willingness to share everything and most especially your heart with me.
I love taking showers together.
I love the way you treat me.
I love how you always manage to find me a piece of chocolate when I need it most.
I love the way you take care of us.
I love the way you help with the children so that I can have a few minutes to myself.
I love the way you take the time to thank me for doing everyday things.
I love your ability to make me feel better when times are tough.
I love the way we make up after a fight.
I love how you treat our children.
I love that you are our daughter’s first love and our son’s superhero.
I love the way you support me when I'm off track.
I love the way you take the time to show me how much you love me.
I love your courage to be you.
I love your greatness.
I love the fact that you want to be with me and only me.
I love that I know no matter what comes our way together we will make it through it.
I love that I am your best friend.
I love that you are my best friend.
I love how I am and feel when I am with you!
I love you for you!
I love that I will love you forever!