Keep things as they are, and get a vision for where you want to go with the people in your life.
Never get stuck in the past and people that you used to know, or people that you used to belong to.
Just be happy.
Give one thousand percent to your life, your relationships, and your focus.
You have to focus on the things in life that you do have now, don't let the negative thoughts from inside come out on top, combat them with positive ones.
You can be happy, you can be real, you can live in the now, if you keep focusing on what matters now, and if you commit to take each day as it comes.